As the wedding day approaches, the celebrations begin! A bridal shower is a cherished tradition, a time for the bride's closest friends and family to "shower" her with love, well wishes, and gifts for her new home. But as the planning starts, a key question of etiquette often arises: "who traditionally throws a bridal shower?" The answer has evolved over time, but the spirit of celebration remains the same. At Almagems, we believe that every part of the wedding journey is special, including thanking the wonderful person who hosts this beautiful event.
The Traditional Answer (and the Modern Twist)
So, who traditionally throws a bridal shower?
Traditionally, the Maid of Honor and the bridesmaids are the ones to host the bridal shower. The thinking behind this was that it was improper for close family members (like the mother of the bride) to host, as it could look like they were asking for gifts for their own daughter.
However, modern bridal shower etiquette is much more flexible! Today, it is perfectly acceptable and very common for anyone to host, including:
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The mother of the bride or groom
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A close family friend
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An aunt or cousin
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Even a group of coworkers!
The most important thing is that someone who loves the bride wants to throw her a party. The old "rules" have largely faded in favor of celebrating the bride-to-be.
The Most Important "Thank You": A Gift for the Hostess
Planning and hosting a bridal shower is a huge act of love. It takes time, effort, and expense. That's why it is a wonderful and essential gesture for the bride to give a gift to the hostess (or hostesses) to express her gratitude.
A personalized thank you present is the perfect way to show your appreciation because it:
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Is Incredibly Thoughtful: It shows you've put care into creating something just for her.
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Is a Lasting Memento: It's a gift she can cherish long after the shower is over.
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Acknowledges Her Unique Role: It celebrates her as your Maid of Honor, mother, or cherished friend.
Thoughtful Gifts for the Maid of Honor & Hostess
Let Almagems help you find the perfect bridal shower hostess gift idea:
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A "Favorite Memory" Custom Photo Frame: Find your favorite photo of you and the hostess (your MOH, your mom, your bestie) and put it in a beautiful frame engraved with "Thank you for everything" and your wedding date.
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A Personalized "Best Friend" Mug: A sweet and simple gift. A custom mug with a funny photo of you two or an inside joke is a daily reminder of your special bond.
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An Engraved "Thank You" Keepsake Box: A beautiful wooden box for her to store her own treasures, engraved with her name and a heartfelt message of thanks.
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A Cozy Photo Blanket: For a very special hostess, like your mom or sister, a soft fleece blanket with a collage of your best photos together is a wonderfully warm and loving "thank you."
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A Custom Jigsaw Puzzle: A fun and unique gift! Turn a great photo of you and your MOH into a custom puzzle.
And don't forget, these also make fantastic unique gifts for the bride-to-be herself if you're a guest!
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Almagems: Your Partner in Celebrating Your "I Do" Crew
At Almagems, we are passionate about celebrating all the relationships that make a wedding so special. We offer:
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High-Quality, Beautiful Gifts: Crafted to be a lasting symbol of your gratitude.
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Easy & Fun Customization: Our online tools make it simple to upload photos, add text, and create a one-of-a-kind gift.
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A Gift That Truly Says "Thank You": We help you express your appreciation in a memorable and meaningful way.
Conclusion: A Celebration of Friendship and Family
So, who traditionally throws a bridal shower? While the Maid of Honor is the classic answer, today it can be anyone who loves the bride. The most important tradition of all is to shower the bride with love, and to remember to thank the incredible people who help make her pre-wedding celebrations so special. A thoughtful, personalized gift is the perfect way to do just that.
Looking for the perfect personalized thank you presents? Create a custom keepsake that shows your gratitude with Almagems.